Reflections on the Last Day of the Year
As the final day of the year unfolds, I find myself in the quiet, sipping a hot cup of tea, pondering what to share. The world will soon turn its attention to New Year’s resolutions—fresh starts and aspirations for positive change. I, too, am considering how I might continue to grow. But before leaping forward, I feel the need to pause, to look back and reflect on the past year—the small changes, the lessons learned, and the journey to becoming my best self, in body, mind, and soul.
Embracing Change and Simplicity
This year brought a bold and transformative career change. It was not without its challenges; adjusting mentally and physically took patience and perseverance. Yet, as I look back, I see the beauty of that decision. It allowed me to rediscover the joy of simplicity, the richness of contentment, and the fullness that comes from having less but living more.
Growth in Faith and Relationships
My spiritual life has deepened, and with it, my expectations—of myself and others—have softened. I’ve learned to let go of judgments and embrace appreciation for what is. This shift has created space for gratitude to flourish. Starting a business with my husband has brought unexpected blessings, enabling me to care for him and our home, nurture family connections, and serve others. My days now include more of what brings me peace: time outdoors, quiet moments, meaningful books, heartfelt prayers, and cherished activities.
Through this year’s challenges, I’ve discovered profound truths about relationships and the human experience. We are all navigating pain, heartache, and personal battles. Relationships are life’s cornerstone, and forgiveness, mercy, humility, and love form their foundation. There’s no time for envy, hate, or incessant wanting—true joy lies in gratitude and a heart filled with appreciation.
Living with Purpose and Courage
I’ve also learned that fear has no place in a life shaped by faith. Loving one another, and allowing ourselves to be loved, requires immense courage and strength. We were created for goodness, for meaningful work, leisure, and, above all, love. These are the hallmarks of a life well-lived.
A Pilgrim’s Path, Not a Tourist’s Journey
As I reflect, one realization stands out: I want to live as a pilgrim, always moving toward the light, continually learning and loving. I do not want to rush through life like a tourist, consumed by the fear of missing out, expecting to be served. The pilgrim’s path is one of intentionality, growth, and purpose — a journey that I hope to continue for all my days.
Looking ahead, I wonder what I will reflect on a year from now. What lessons will the coming months teach? What growth will I experience? These reflections remind me that the past is not a place to dwell but a guidepost for making the right choices in the present moment—the “now.”
As we prepare to enter a new year, I invite you to join me in breaking the chains that hold us back from caring for our bodies, minds, and souls. Reach out to others for support, and offer support to those who seek it. Together, we can walk this pilgrimage of life, striving toward love, light, and the best versions of ourselves.
Here’s to the journey ahead—one of gratitude, growth, and endless possibilities.